Money is tight. Time is precious. And when life feels uncertain, the idea of paying someone to talk to you might sound… well, indulgent.

"Can’t I just talk to a friend instead?"

It’s a fair question and one I often hear.

The truth is, sometimes all we need is a friend. Someone to hold space, pour the tea, and let us unravel our thoughts without interruption. A good friend can soothe the soul like almost nothing else.

But there’s a distinction worth noticing and it’s one that matters.

Friends vs Coaches: What’s the Difference?

A friend loves you. They want you to feel better. They’re on your side; which means they’ll often try to help by giving advice, reassurance, or telling you what they would do in your shoes.

A friend is likely to tell you what you want to hear because they don't want to upset you or create a rift.

A coach isn’t there to comfort you in the familiar. A coach is there to walk with you through the unfamiliar; to help you find your way out of the status quo that is no longer working for you.

Unlike a friend, a coach is free from emotional entanglement and can meet you where you are without a shared history.

They’re trained to listen without judgement and without an agenda. They will ask you questions and create a safe space for you to find your own answers.

A coach can be your personal champion and cheerleader, gently guiding back into your own power. 

"Coaching is an investment in fresh insights."

One of the greatest gifts a coach offers is an outside perspective; someone whose view of you is not coloured by old stories, family roles, or history.

They don’t see you through the lens of “you’ve always been like this.” They see you as you are now and who you might become.

It’s an investment not just in someone’s time, but in their training, presence, and ability to hold up the mirror and say:

"What if you’re more capable than you think?"
"What if this stuckness isn’t the end, but a beginning?"
"What if it’s safe to want something more?"

When Coaching is Right for You

Not everyone needs a coach. And certainly not all the time.

But coaching might be right for you if:

• You’re circling the same problem and can’t seem to get traction
• You’re standing at a crossroads and want clarity before you choose
• You feel the call to grow, but you're not sure how or in what direction
• You’re tired of your own excuses and want someone to hold you accountable

Coaching isn't remedial: i.e, there's something wrong with you that needs fixing. 

A coach can help you create your own unique blueprint of an abundant life.

The Bottom Line?

Compatibility, mutual trust and shared commitment are key factors in a successful client-coach engagement.

You're ready for coaching when you are committed to make a lasting change in your life. 

This commitment includes an investment of time and money in a coach who can be a catalyst for change and your trusted companion on that journey.

P.S. Would you like to find out what it could be like to have me as your coach?

Let's have a chat. Use the button above to book a time.  

Even a single conversation can lead to greater clarity.